October. A month that I have a love-hate relationship with. There are a few anniversaries – some that make me happy, and others make me a little sad.
For instance, on the happy end of the scale, early October is a year since my last Gold Coast adventure. At the Gold Coast I stay with a friend who I love dearly. Her and her family, young son included, are very special to me and I love them like family.
Currently I’m being reminded of my visit every time I go on facebook. The On This Day memories that pop up are mostly the countdown I had going in the days before my flight. The posts and photos in the background of the countdown make me smile. I see my friend’s (now) 6yr old son and his smile while he’s cuddling into me makes me smile and feel the honest love from a young child.
The memories from times spent with my friend make me smile too. So many things happened during my visit that were some of the best parts of last year. That trip changed parts of my life for the long term…and for the better.
The end of October however, is a different story. October 30th is my friend, Lucy’s birthday. But she lost her life in 2012. A few months short of turning 19. Cancer took her from this earth far too soon. The anniversary of her birth is a whole lot more sad when she’s no longer here. Every year it’s another year she’s not celebrated. These are years that have come and gone for me. I’ll be 25 this year. Lucy will never celebrate her 25th birthday.
Her birthdays make me sad. Losing a friend so young is the worst thing. I wish she were her. I wish we could celebrate her birthday with her like we should be.
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